03.07.13 Personal

Happy Birthday, my love...

Dear JD
I've tried writing this letter a few times and I end up shutting my computer because words fail me, much like many things have failed me these past few weeks. I looked across the small table while we shared antipasti last week and I said I might have lost my mind. Stress, you said,it's just the pressure you're putting on yourself...don't worry about it. I said it might be a tumor and you rolled your eyes, insisting it was not, in fact, a tumor.

The following day you found me in bed curled with my computer, crying. I said I was going to give up. You quietly shook your head and closed my computer. Well, if you're going to quit, it'll be tomorrow, after you get some rest.

When I came home from an engagement shoot in Las Vegas last week, you and Polo--parked just outside the Arrivals gate--waved from the front seat. Well, you waved. Polo barked. You handed me an apple (rightly anticipating my travel hunger) and threw my bags in the back seat.

Today is your birthday and I'm having a hard time thinking of something nice I could say that compares to the niceness you show me on a daily basis. I feel like the luckiest girl to be your wife and today marks the day the world became a better place by your birth. Thank you for being my best friend and I can't wait to celebrate another year of life.

Happy Birthday, my love.
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Falcon - This post made me so emotional! Mainly because it's exactly how I feel about my boyfriend and how appreciative I am of him for the small things, and keeping me totally sane! Thank you for being so vulnerable in this letter, it's so beautiful. xo  03.10.13 - 1:45pm
Alexis - Your love story is so inspiring :)  03.08.13 - 1:59pm
Peter West - Lucky man  03.08.13 - 4:59am
Elise - So sweet Jasmine! Makes me so happy inside! You are both amazing.  03.07.13 - 10:39pm
Darla Whisenand - Ah That's so sweet! I have a JD and his name is Paul! It's so wonderful to have a man like that for a husband. I am so thankful because I see so many other men out there that are just so terrible to their wives or girlfriends! And some of them are very close to me and it just breaks my heart because they are treated that way. You go girl! Your such an inspiration to me, not only in my photography business but in life as well! God Bless!  03.07.13 - 7:44pm
Ashley Rogers - Beautifully said, J. Dang, now I'm crying!   03.07.13 - 5:50pm
Amy Steed - Simply put, but beautiful. Happy Birthday JD!  03.07.13 - 3:34pm
Marlene Grooms - I want, NO, I WILL HAVE an amazing relationship just like yours one day. Not only are you an amazing photographer, writer & wife (I'm sure DJ wouldn't be soo dang nice if you weren't), you are an incredible inspiration for a healthy and happy marriage. I recently left my very unhealthy 7 year long relationship because I want healthy, I want what you talk about in your posts. I will have it! Thanks so much for sharing your love of photography and DJ with all the world. You are so incredibly inspiring! Don't stop being you!!  03.07.13 - 2:54pm
Raquel Leeper - Jasmine and JD - First off, Hope you are having a wonderful birthday JD! I think you two are both rockstars and you are so lucky to have one another in each others life. Someday, I hope to meet both of you because each and everyday you both inspire me. You have an aura of love that is not always seen and compliment each other well. I am happy to have found your website many years ago!! happy birthday!!  03.07.13 - 2:50pm
Katie - Love that picture of your hubs! It's the small things that make love great, so even though it is hard to verbalize the significance of an apple after a flight, it really SHOWS a ton. You guys are lucky to have each other:)   03.07.13 - 1:04pm
Candace Prokopets - What an honest and sincere post! And so perfect to celebrate JD! Happy, Happy Birthday!   03.07.13 - 11:20am
Nathan Leduc - Happy B-Day man!  03.07.13 - 11:15am
Mikaela - You two are the best. Happiest of birthdays to you, JD!! Love, Mikaela & Shane :)  03.07.13 - 11:00am
LEOLAK - Sweet post for an awesome man! HAPPY BIRTHDAY JD!!!!   03.07.13 - 9:46am
Jasmin - I am truly and forever in love with your love to your husband! Congrats JD! And thanks for making my sister-in-names so happy every single day!  03.07.13 - 9:41am
Tasha Prescott-Wilson - Is it weird that on my calendar it popped up "Today's Jd's Birthday!" and I was like Oh I have to send him a message lol I love the passion you have for your husband. Not sure if I put it on my calendar to remind me to wish him a happy birthday or to make sure I read your blog today to have just a peek into that love... Who knows but I'm glad for the reminder! JD have an amazing birthday!   03.07.13 - 9:17am
Amy Jo - Happy Birthday JD!! I only met you once in passing at WPPI, but I knew you were good people because no one ever says differently. I hope your day is great!  03.07.13 - 9:15am
jack - I think every girl needs a JD!  03.07.13 - 8:35am
Gail - AHHHH SUCH a sweet post for SUCH a sweet guy!   03.07.13 - 8:25am
Angel Pope - awwwwwwwww :'-)  03.07.13 - 8:23am
Donna Stokes Kennedy - Happy BDay JD!  03.07.13 - 8:19am
Morgan - Thank you for not only being a fabulous photography mentor but for also being a great role model. Your's and JD's relationship teaches me to be a better wife. Thank you for that. :0)  03.07.13 - 8:19am
kayla :) - HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JD!!! :) Thanks for making the world a brighter place.  03.07.13 - 8:05am
Shannon - Sounds like my husband! But JD is a superstar like you. Makes me so happy to see you both so in love. Happy Birthday JD!   03.07.13 - 8:05am
Alyse Nicole Photography - Aw! Sweet. :) Happy birthday JD.  03.07.13 - 8:01am
Stephanie - Aw, this was so sweet and touching. You and JD are such wonderful examples of how to love one another. Happy birthday to JD!!!  03.07.13 - 8:01am
Sara Holland - He really is a radiant soul. Blessings to both you two kids!  03.07.13 - 8:00am
Kelsy McCartney - HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, JD!!!!! Cheers from us & our cute puppy to you & yours :)  03.07.13 - 7:56am
Sean - God bless you guys and keep you love flowing. I'm also blessed to have a wonderful wife so u can relate to what you feel as she's my biggest supporter. Just bought your course on creative and I absolutely love it. You're so full of energy and an amazing person. Thanks you jasmine and happy birthday JD  03.07.13 - 7:56am
Jan - OMG, this totally made me tear-up! What a blessing it is to have wonderful men to call husbands. Happy birthday!! May the Lord continue to bless the both of you with many years of happiness and love.  03.07.13 - 7:48am
Emma Garcia - beautiful post!... happy b-day JD!   03.07.13 - 7:46am
Jasmin TM - I think you said perfect! Happy Birthday JD. Wishing you even more blessings in your life.  03.07.13 - 7:36am
Nicki - This blogpost brought tears to my eyes! The love you guys share is so BEAUTIFUL. I think JD is as lucky to have you as you to have him - because you COMPLETE each other (:   03.07.13 - 7:36am
Annetta - Happy Birthday, JD!   03.07.13 - 7:31am
Dawn & Michael Mitchell - Happy Birthday JD! And Jasmine, your sentiments hit home for Michael and me also!  03.07.13 - 7:31am
Karen Massey - Just beautiful,nothing more needs to be said x  03.07.13 - 7:26am
Lacey Rabalais - Seriously....get a room! Noooo....just kidding! Yall are so cute and you both seem like such a blessing to each other. And the world! Happy Birthday JD!   03.07.13 - 7:26am
Jacinthe - I love everything about this post: the way you write, the photo, your husband's niceness, the complicity you two share, his love for you, your love for him... Makes my heart smile. Happy birthday, JD! Hope you two have a wonderful day.  03.07.13 - 7:23am
Dallas - The part about the apple almost made me cry, it's so sweet :) Happy birthday JD!!!  03.07.13 - 7:21am
Janet Gerbutavich - Awww, so very sweet. Happy Birthday JD, you and Jasmine seem to be the perfect ying to each others yang, Have a spectacular day.  03.07.13 - 7:17am
Mark Potter - Happy Birthday JD! Meeting you last June was a true honor. You have a way of making people feel very welcome and comfortable. Wish we could share a good glass of vino with you! Best wishes for a beautiful year ahead.   03.07.13 - 7:17am
Kat - Happy Birthday J.D.  03.07.13 - 7:15am
ashlee adams - Isnt it amazing to be so loved by someone and have no demands of anything back ? ! xoxox  03.07.13 - 7:14am
Orlando Wedding Photographer | DSWfoto - Happy Birthday, JD!!!  03.07.13 - 7:14am
Sally Manlove - Hope you get some rest and enjoy time together between restart and WPPI!  03.07.13 - 7:10am
Jenna Kutcher - Happy birthday to an amazing man who is nothing short of fabulous. The love and support you show Jasmine is evident in her strength and your sincere attitude. You two are incredibly blessed to lean on one another and are on exceptional pair. So great seeing you both yesterday, Happy Birthday JD!   03.07.13 - 7:09am
Deborah - Happy Birthday, JD.  03.07.13 - 7:03am
Kristen - Adorable!! Happy Birthday JD!! :)   03.07.13 - 6:36am
ashlyn - awww, jasmine, this was sweet! happy birthday JD! y'all are so cute!   03.07.13 - 6:34am
Paige Overturf - You have an incredible gift for putting thoughts into words. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JD!  03.07.13 - 6:14am
Shanna Duffy - Ohmigosh!! I'm all teary-eyed!!! This really makes me want to go give my fiancee a big hug and say Thank You for all of the things he does for me. Thanks for reminding me to appreciate the small, selfless moments of true love. P.S. Happy Birthday JD!!  03.07.13 - 5:58am
Maïeva Voyage - Happy birthday to JD!!! You're such an inspiring and lovely couple. Wish you all the best, Maïeva Voyage  03.07.13 - 5:47am
Lindsey Laughlin - HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JD!!   03.07.13 - 5:44am
Lindsey McClennahan - Jasmine, you can't make me cry two days in a row! : ) dang! : ) Happy Birthday JD! Thanks for keeping our Jasmine going! Every great photographer needs an amazing coach :) With your help, you're helping us all. love love love love to you both! have a great day!  03.07.13 - 5:29am
Catie Ronquillo Wood - Happy Birthday JD! I'm thinking good men, brave men, patient men, are born this time of year. It's my hubby's birthday on Saturday. God Bless them! ;) PS you were amazing on Creative Live! Restart may have started as a crazy idea, but it blossomed into something that has truly impacted the photo community in a positive way, elevating the industry for the better. Thank you, J*. xoxo Hope to see you next week!  03.07.13 - 5:24am
Cozart - WOW, great post.   03.07.13 - 5:01am
The New Diplomat's Wife - Happy Birthday JD!  03.07.13 - 4:33am
Alli McWhinney - Happy Birthday, JD! I hope you have a great day!  03.07.13 - 4:18am
Natasha - Happy Birthday JD, your a great example to others!! x   03.07.13 - 4:14am
Rachel Greene - Y'all's relationship makes me happy :). So glad God brought y'all two together :)  03.07.13 - 4:02am
Denise Karis - Happy Birthday, JD!!!  03.07.13 - 3:43am
elisabetta {linen and silk} - Jasmine, it's been a while since I commented on your blog (rest assured, I read it every day), but today I just want to say thank you, to you and JD, for reminding us with your 'down-to-earthness' what life is all about - love, friendship, family, respect. And never giving up. I don't celebrate birthdays, but I do celebrate life. So I wish you and JD to continue year after year in this path the way you do. You're going to have the most fulfilling life. Ever. Lots of love to you two. xx Betta  03.07.13 - 3:32am