Shooting Star : Tips for Engagement Photos

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ast week I spoke at a conference (more on that coming soon) and I had the pleasure of talking about the 10 Biggest Mistakes I made when I started my business. Okay, maybe pleasure is a bit of a stretch, but I was honored to speak to a group of talented peers and I love where the photo industry is headed. Truly. One of the mistakes I made early on was showing up to a photo shoot and hoping things would work out for themselves.

I mean, wasn't that the way it worked for professional photographers?!?

When my shoots weren't faring the way I wanted, I realized it was no one's fault but my own. As a wedding photographer, I need to prepare my clients for success. This usually begins at the beginning of our working relationship, the engagement session. I realized I needed to prepare my clients for the type of shoot I wanted in order to get the type of photos they wanted.

This is best achieved by letting them know what I need in advance, but instead of merely talking about, today I'm stoked to show you how I do it. I filmed a recent engagement session to provide a behind-the-scenes look at how I work with my clients to plan for a delightful engagement session...



If you'd like to get more information on the detailed email I send clients to prepare them for the shoot, feel free to check it out HERE.

Happy Tuesday!
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Spencer - It really is all about leading and preparing your clients to work with your flow. I've learned so much from your website!  08.21.13 - 5:47pm
Jane - Ahhh! I've been inspired! Thanks Jasmine for sharing your experience with us. I'm going to bring your ideas into my next e-shoot :) Peace x  08.16.13 - 6:48am
Kim Rix Photography - Dear Jasmine, your video is really helpful and has given me some great ideas. I particularly like the fact that you explain to your clients why the timing is critical, rather than just telling them to be on time. Good communication.   06.18.13 - 7:45am
Ernie - Thank you Jasmine for being so open and sharing your tips!! Beautiful and inspiring photography!!  06.17.13 - 3:20pm
Sean Lara - Pretty good advice, thanks for sharing. I love this location, I shot a lot of engagement sessions there when I was based in California still.  05.12.13 - 6:31pm
bycostello - wow.. great advice..  05.08.13 - 3:15am
Rici - This is way cool Jasmine! Thank you so very much for all the effort you put into sharing what´s it all look like behind your scenes! This is soo great! ~ Saulti.  05.03.13 - 7:58am
Christina - This is awesome!!!... Thank you :D Loveyaalots  04.30.13 - 4:17am
Mark Martinez - Love that the info in this post is so beautifully presented. +1 to brides have their hair and makeup professionally done. Thank you for sharing this Jasmine.  04.19.13 - 4:16pm
Kendra - Hi Jasmine...thank you for the great tips! This is a little off topic but can you tell me what lenses you used for this shoot? Thank you! Kendra  04.10.13 - 11:13am
Bobbie Brown - love this video and the images are gooooorgeous! Thanks for sharing :)  03.27.13 - 1:34pm
Keila Nieves - I want to be like you :')  03.26.13 - 7:24pm
Jackie S - This was an amazing video. I've felt as if I was there or I can handle this type of work. You are truly amazing. Thank you for this. I am truly sorry that I felt that your work was easy, could be repeated, or I seen it before. Your personality and "down-to earth" attitude really shut me up. I missed judge you and your work. Thank you for proving me wrong and sharing your love with us all.  03.26.13 - 10:10am
Monica Justesen Photography - I cannot express how wonderful it is for you to constantly inspire the way you do. To willingly and gladly share so many things about yourself and your business with fellow photographers is something that is rare, which makes it all the more amazing that you do what you do. Thank you, as always J.  03.26.13 - 4:21am
Alejandra - Can I just say how much I love your work and how much I love that you share your knowledge!! <3!! I will be doing my first engagement shoot in a week, so this came just in time to help me!! Thank you so much!  03.22.13 - 7:16am
Nadine van Biljon - Some great little pointers in there - thanks Jasmine...keep 'em coming!  03.21.13 - 4:41pm
Trevor Allen Photography - You are so inspiring Jasmine! Great video! And great idea offering your e-mail templates.  03.21.13 - 11:06am
Jessica Vidmar Photography - you're such a genius : )  03.20.13 - 6:01pm
Eryn Kesler - Jasmine, I love all of your shooting star videos...but this one I particularly loved seeing YOU shine through just a little more in a personal way :) Your heart and smile are so lovely!  03.20.13 - 3:29pm
Jen Shannon - Totally love your shirt! I'd love to know where you got it! I always love your videos. They're so inspiring and helpful!  03.20.13 - 1:35pm
Monika Greenaway - AMAZING tips! Beautiful video :)  03.20.13 - 12:07pm
Mary Saou - My favorite shooting star of yours to-date! What a beautiful glimpse into your approach of engagement sessions. Thanks for sharing!  03.20.13 - 11:21am
Kitrin Jeffrey - Just when I want to give up, I watch this, and am inspired. All over again. Thank you, J*  03.20.13 - 10:10am
Darla Whisenand - Love this! Love you!  03.20.13 - 5:52am
ays - hi jasmine, thank you for this wonderful video. my fiance and i are actually going to have our engagement shoot soon and this will help me in asking the right questions to our photographer. thank you!  03.19.13 - 10:29pm
Kristin - Thanks for putting so much out there!  03.19.13 - 7:28pm
Evonne & Darren - Thank you for sharing as always... I always look forward to your videos! :)  03.19.13 - 5:51pm
falcon - You are amazing for sharing this video, Jasmine, thank you! xx  03.19.13 - 5:17pm
denise karis - I started saying "Important" like you just from hearing you talk so much and now I think of you every time I say important...... like....impordent....was the old way....and now it's imPORTant. The J Star way. ANYWAY, thank you for posting this! I love it!!   03.19.13 - 3:37pm
Kirk Willcox - damn Jasmine you are practicing what you preach girl! lol I love how you taught us the importance of video and now you backing up your statement by showing us. I love this video, it is so well produced and reflects your fun personality. Cant wait to see more!  03.19.13 - 2:40pm
Ashley Rogers - J, I love this! Thank you for the practical, hands-on, fun tips! I don't like being in front of the camera, but someday, I hope I'll be able to be in front of ours. Yes, your my dream photographer. :) And I'm not saying that flippantly; it's for real. <3  03.19.13 - 2:14pm
jamie - so helpful jasmine thank you!!   03.19.13 - 1:35pm
Mark Potter - LOVE the way you plan and communicate Jasmine. Seeing you on video makes me want to hang out with you in the OC again so bad. Maybe a j* alumni workshop in the future? Yes please!  03.19.13 - 1:13pm
Whitney Lane - Awesome shooting star today J* love the pro feel he did a great job of filming. Love that tip on getting her to get her makeup professionally done as it gives her a chance to see what she likes before her wedding day! I have had brides who hated their wedding day makeup.  03.19.13 - 12:08pm
Sabrina - Jasmine!! That was such an amazing video! Thank you so much for being open about when/where/how you do things as well as what's worked and what hasn't. And thank you for taking Shooting Star on location this time!! Loved it :-)  03.19.13 - 12:05pm
Sarah Adams - Jasmine! Thank you so so much for sharing your wisdom...especially in video form! This is so incredibly helpful! I also went ahead and bought your email templates....so helpful to work from in responding to some difficult questions from my clients! Again, Thank you!!!  03.19.13 - 11:50am
Ashley Goodwin - I heart your videos! :)  03.19.13 - 11:17am
Majiksgirl - Is it possible to put a "pin" button on your video/tutorial information? It'd make an easy pin to Pinterest. I'm learning so much from you. :) Thanks!  03.19.13 - 11:11am
claudia - your shooting star videos... just fabulous! can you do it everyday. :P  03.19.13 - 10:43am
Kimberly Gould - Thank you for the wonderful tips. We don't normally do engagement portraits, but we did have a couple of friends that became engaged recently and this will come in handy to get them prepared for a beautiful session.  03.19.13 - 9:50am
Susan Beth - Thank you! I cannot imagine a more helpful tool than that little video. It helped for a huge number of things - watching you hang your camera over them and then check the image was like "Oh! I can do that with confidence now instead of feeling like a goober - if Jasmine does it, it is professional and okay! Just thank you!  03.19.13 - 9:31am
Nathan Leduc - Thanks for the vid!  03.19.13 - 8:59am
Nathan Leduc - Thanks for the vid!  03.19.13 - 8:58am
Fran Colonna - Part of your God-given talent is your own beautiful smile!! Your facical expressions and gorgeous smile demands people to smile back at you...their natural smile!!! People can not help but react to your warmth and beauty. I smile the whole time I am watching you.....   03.19.13 - 8:38am
jaine {brklyn view photography} - Love this! Thank you jasmine. Your tips are always so helpful!  03.19.13 - 8:36am
Crystal Madsen - What a great video Jasmine. This s great advice for my brides a nd grooms to see. I love that its on a video too.  03.19.13 - 8:32am
monica - you are truly inspiring!  03.19.13 - 8:26am
Vanessa - Ah, you are so cute! I just love these SS videos- they are super helpful! You are such a great person, and I would love to meet you one day. :)  03.19.13 - 8:17am
Maïeva Voyage - Hi Jasmine, Thank you very much for this new post. I love the way you present things to your clients: you have wonderful skills in communication! Thanks again for your advice and generosity. Maïeva Voyage  03.19.13 - 7:29am