06.28.10 Personal

My First Kiss

t was my first step on a school campus as a legit student. I wore new shoes, a neatly ironed skirt, and a brand-new backpack. When I think back to that moment, I'm mostly struck with the idea that I was trying too hard. But I was homeschooled until that very point, so I didn't know any better. I walked into WCCS as an eighth grader, as a single (my twin decided to be homeschooled for another year), and fully focused on what mattered: boys. Namely, that I had zero experience with them. Mom explained that they were from the devil--and I wasn't allowed to date until I was 31--but I was determined to figure it out for myself.

Unluckily, the boys paid little attention to me. I was awkward. Pudgy, bushy eyebrows, and I wore hand-me-downs, so I was in a constant state of looking, well, worn. It wasn't until Brieanna befriend me that my luck changed. She had a closet filled with clothes, her mother plucked my brows, and she showed me all the cool radio stations to listen to. RnB...definitely RnB...

Shortly into the year, I caught the attention of TJ Lunsford. He had almond shaped eyes and a magnetic smile. He lived with his grandmother, loved basketball, and didn't seem to care about my clothes. We started talking on the phone after school and then became a couple. Because that's how it happens. Duh.

TJ + Jasmine = 4ever

Kissing was strictly forbidden at the school, but I knew if we were to going to kiss, it had to be there because my parents didn't allow me to hang out after the bell rang. At the risk of being suspended, I knew I had to be ready for TJ at any moment. It was all about the strawberry-flavored chapstick. One afternoon, TJ took a break from playing football at lunch and invited me to sit with him. Alone. Behind the dumpster. Hold on...that bears repeating...BEHIND THE DUMPSTER. He was breathing deeply. I like to pretend it was because he was nervous, but I know it was because he'd just scored a touchdown. We spoke for a bit, then he leaned in and kissed me. Soft, firm, experienced. I, on the other hand, looked like I was trying to resuscitate a llama.

A couple weeks later, TJ broke up with me. Michelle was his new girlfriend and they kissed in the bus after our basketball games. And she didn't make it look so llama-ish. It made me realize my mom was right after all: Boys were from the devil.
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Dalton - Lol. Behind the dumpster. At least it was memorable.  10.04.15 - 12:25pm
Tracy - I think I will have to store this one away for when my daughter's hit that stage! :) Seriously...they aren't dating anyone until they are 31 either!  09.03.10 - 4:29pm
Natalie - great blog! I have a similar experience...except my first kiss was unfortunately a dare (so i don't REALLY count it as my FIRST kiss lol) and instead of behind a dumpster it was a movie theater. It was when we were at the age of going on group dates. I believe it was in 7th grade and unfortunately my crush the guy who I was dared to kiss had eaten popcorn and I hated the taste at the time....needless to say I pulled away and he claimed that I had bitten his tongue and my girlfriends teased me forever about it. I ended up marrying his best friend! And my "real" first was way better!   08.25.10 - 7:38pm
Carissa - "Boys were from the devil" AHHAHAA. Cute post!  08.03.10 - 12:23am
Heather Corporan - HAHAHA. People always say they wished they could relive those years. Ummm, me. . not sah much ! Thanks for bringing me back to my yesteryears! BEHIND THE DUMPSTER (or water tower, or whatever : ) Boys are so the devil. And I'm teaching my own daughter that already ; )  07.07.10 - 2:13pm
Karen Stott - BEHIND THE DUMPSTER!!!! Oh my word middle school boys are SOOOO romantic. love it! I hope he has google alert and reads this!  07.02.10 - 10:24pm
Truc - Still laughing! Jasmine, I love your posts! The llama thing is too funny!  07.02.10 - 4:49pm
Anna - Haven't commented before, but I just love looking through your photographs and reading your perspectives on life. My first kiss was at 15, also with a more experienced guy... and it was horrible! His tongue was slimy and I remember wondering what all the fuss was about! Keep up the good work Jasmine!  06.30.10 - 6:58pm
Brittani - Awww!! yay. I love these stories. lol At least you got urs over with by the time u were 14. I got my first kiss 3 months before my 17th birthday!! lol And I know the feeling...  06.30.10 - 8:22am
Ginger Murray - Ooh, and also? Where is a photo for this post? I think you should re-enact.   06.29.10 - 10:55pm
Ginger Murray - Who doesn't like llamas though?? I mean seriously!?  06.29.10 - 10:54pm
Jenny McCann - Jasmine, I don't comment on blogs very often and I must admit I rarely even READ blogs...just scan for pretty pictures...but I just wanted to pop in and say your blog is so funny. I always stop and read it because it gives me a good laugh and this post had me cracking up in my cubicle. :)  06.29.10 - 2:01pm
Annie - Again, you've inspired me! I decided to share my kissy story with the world as well.... you can read it here: THANKS so much for all your awesome writings and photos.   06.29.10 - 1:08pm
Jakki - Thank you!!! I have a killer headache and this gave me my first belly laugh of the day!  06.29.10 - 6:53am
chandra - My first kiss was with a dreamy boy named Troy Cassity (isn't that the perfect name for your first kiss boy!?). I remember he took his gum out right before he slipped me the tongue. Then he dumped me shortly after and for a far more experienced girl too. Oh well :)   06.29.10 - 12:26am
s h e r r y - Hahahaha. This is too funny... Boys are from the devil ;D  06.28.10 - 10:00pm
Narrelle - LOL. Story of a first kiss as only you could tell it. Love it! :)  06.28.10 - 5:40pm
jaqueline faria - That is too cute! No one forgets their first kiss... My first kiss was horrible, though the boy was very dreamy he had really bad breath...EWWWW  06.28.10 - 5:01pm
Linda Sherrill - How fun! Great story... My Dad handed me a filet knife (blade open) on my first date and told me if I saw anything that night that I had never seen before, to cut it off....Dating and boys were scary for me too at first! I'll never forget my Dad...he laughed so hard as that guy drove his van out of our!   06.28.10 - 4:14pm
Melanie - Too cute!  06.28.10 - 3:49pm
Laurajane - such a cute story. kinda wish i had a story like that. definitely still waiting for that first kiss. and a first date for that matter. lame.   06.28.10 - 3:43pm
Christa - Love it :) lol  06.28.10 - 3:43pm
Tony Gonzalez - You had me rollin at my desk. Behind the dumpster. I guess thats better then my up on a mattress in the attic of our high school auditorium where it was all dusty and haunted LOL. High school.....what an experience  06.28.10 - 3:40pm
Jackie Lovato - LOVE it! wish it had a self portrait or something to go with it tho..hint, hint, nudge nudge for next time...  06.28.10 - 3:13pm
John B. - Have you ever smelled llama-breath? It's horrifying...  06.28.10 - 2:56pm
Brittney - too funny! thanks for sharing :)  06.28.10 - 2:42pm
Beria Charles - " trying to resuscitate a llama" !!! lol You are the best! Too funny!  06.28.10 - 2:34pm
Ronee - That was soooooo precious. My 1st kiss was in sophomore year (I was a late bloomer). I never practiced on my arm or my pillow. so I was probably just as llama-ish as you. He was nice enough to give me another chance, though...i guess not all boys are from the devil :)  06.28.10 - 2:33pm
Evie Perez - This is funny!! My mom always told me that boys only wanted one thing and that if they gave you something then wanted something in return :)   06.28.10 - 2:31pm
Suki - Jasmine, you are too cute :)   06.28.10 - 2:14pm
LEOLAK - HILARIOUS!!!! Thanks for a great laugh today!   06.28.10 - 1:54pm
sarah - this totally MADE ME LAUGH. thank you!  06.28.10 - 1:53pm
anne - you are SO FUNNY!!!!! And Paul (my husband) says that our kids (esp the girls) can date when they are married!!! LOL!  06.28.10 - 1:48pm
Hennessey G - Out of breath because you just scored a touchdown as a 14 year old not likely. Out of breath because you're about to kiss a pretty girl, no matter how many times you've done it before....... much more likely.  06.28.10 - 1:48pm
Barb - Ha! I'm 41 and my Pastor friend still tells me males are from the devil. Still single but have hope!  06.28.10 - 1:25pm
Kelly | Purple Lemon Designs - HA-larious!  06.28.10 - 1:20pm
Melissa Papaj Photography - That is great! Thanks for sharing :) I remember my first kiss...I just remember thinking...why is the world is he sticking his tongue in my mouth...EEEEWWWW!!!  06.28.10 - 12:53pm
Janey - My first kiss was in 9th grade at Bevery Hills Cop III...nothing like Eddie Murphy to get you in the mood. Haha. Such a cute story Jasmine - xoxo!  06.28.10 - 12:51pm
Erica Velasco - Isn't it always great to walk down memory lane.  06.28.10 - 12:48pm
Kate - TOOOO funny Jas! It is allll about the chapstick and what flavor!  06.28.10 - 12:48pm
angel pope - Jasmine--you ARE funny! I guess my first kiss was too boring, because I barely remember it! LUVS!  06.28.10 - 12:46pm
Tamara - This is the greatest kiss story ever. Love it. Made me smile.   06.28.10 - 12:44pm
Bekka - great post where is the rest of the story were yu guys got back together! yea im I LOVE "LOVE STORIES" ;-)  06.28.10 - 12:43pm
jackie - GREAT! My daughter is going to the 8th grade after being homeschooled her whole life and I think boys are on her mind...but hopefully my words to her "Boys are from the devil" will remind her to not kiss any boy behind the dumpster.  06.28.10 - 12:36pm
ashley - Thanks for the smile Jasmine. I really needed it =)   06.28.10 - 12:34pm
Lora Ayers - mine was on a haunted carnival ride, Philip Taylor. :) so funny!   06.28.10 - 12:31pm
Otto Rascon - Too awesome. Gotta love pre-teen awkwardness! Rock on.  06.28.10 - 12:27pm
Erin Elizabeth - Wow, your mom was so right! Boys ARE the Devil! :)  06.28.10 - 12:27pm
Mikaela - Ah I love this!! Maybe because my first kiss experience is nearly identical and equally awkward!   06.28.10 - 12:23pm
EMily Troutman - I TOTALLY needed that today - I was literally wading through some photo editing & thought "I need some Jasmine" & took a break to see what was on the blog - THANKS for the laugh!! And you obviously won in the end :)  06.28.10 - 12:22pm
Jill Louvar - ahhhhh. young love....the first short and sweet it all is! :) that was a great story jasmine. Thanks for sharing with us. :)  06.28.10 - 12:19pm
Danielle Fletcher - precious, I love it. Thank you for sharing that!!!  06.28.10 - 12:15pm
Alex Beadon - This post is too cute :)  06.28.10 - 12:09pm
Diandra - hahahahahaha that is hilarious! And so well told!  06.28.10 - 12:01pm
Rachel Catlett - Aww, cute story. I was 21 when I got my first kiss. Yes that's right. 21. I was visiting my cousin in California and she set me up on a blind date for Valentine's Day!! Of all the days...obviously I wasn't very good at dating, I'd never done it before!! But he was very sweet and could tell I was nervous. We sat in his very cool car after dinner and he asked if he could kiss me goodnight. It was perfect, I was embarrassed, I gave him a hug and ran inside to tell my cousins and aunt. "He kissed me! On the mouth!" It didn't work out with me living in Montana and he was in California. I'm 22 now and he's still the only boy I've ever kissed but I wouldn't have it any other way! :)  06.28.10 - 12:00pm
Victoria Danielle - This totally brought back my first kiss and those awkward years of boys. Thanks for sharing J*  06.28.10 - 11:57am
Cherisse - LMBO Jasmine! Your so funny! Thanks for sharing this bit of your life with us. Glad you ditched that TJ and got with JD.   06.28.10 - 11:57am
Michelle Guzman - LOVE IT!!!!! Oh my goodness! You are such a writer. I wish there were more of these stories in a book collection.   06.28.10 - 11:56am
Michelle - I bet he wishes he had your llama kisses now, huh? And that Michelle chic? Pshhh... My first kiss was in 7th grade in the band hall instrument storage closet. It was with Ted Kirby. Apparently he had milk for lunch because his breath had some funk. We never kissed again.  06.28.10 - 11:44am
Kelly Langner Sauer - I can SO not picture you pudgy... wow.   06.28.10 - 11:40am
Shelley Jensen - Now THAT is a funny post. :)  06.28.10 - 11:36am
Jackie Beale - awkward? nah. i was NINETEEN when I had my first kiss!, but that's a whole other story :\  06.28.10 - 11:17am
Kim - My first kiss was in 7th grade, and I remember it being very un-romantic too :) But you snagged yourself a good one in high school!  06.28.10 - 11:09am
Melinda Leal - HOW STINKING FUNNY!!! I love it!   06.28.10 - 11:05am
Angel Canary - Ha! My first kiss, sad but true, I was 15!!! I was legally driving a car at 13, but was 15 1/2 before I had my first kiss. It was my crush, Zach, at the skating rink. I had to "sit out" because I was speed skating (shocker!) and it was weird, but perfect. Oh, and yes, my dad said boys were from the devil, and I was NOT to talk to them on the phone. Ask my bff, Jason, he shot at him, with a GUN! lol!  06.28.10 - 11:01am
lindsay earle - I just love you Jas  06.28.10 - 10:56am
Life with Kaishon - Strawberry flavored chapstick is da bomb!  06.28.10 - 10:44am